Usayd ibn Abu Usayd, reported on the authority of a woman who took oath of allegiance (to the Prophet):One of the oaths which the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) received from us about the virtue was that we would not disobey him in it (virtue): that we would not scratch the face, nor wail, nor tear the front of the garments nor dishevel the hair

English translation · Sunan Abu Dawud